I hate my life

I hate my life.

A line that is often used by teenagers. Honestly, I lose my respect for you once you say those few words.

Firstly, it shows immaturity.
We all know that are many people in this world that have it worse than you.
Furthermore, there are people who have already lost their lives. I'm pretty sure that that is definitely worse than any problem you are facing right now. There's no solution to death.

Secondly, it shows that you are not pro-active.
If your life sucks, go make it suck less.

"You think easy is it?" You may reply.

No one said it was going to simple or easy but if you hate your life so much then that should be a strong enough motivation for you to want to change it. So you got 2 choices, living your so-called terrible life or actually doing something and making it better. It's your choice.

However if you don't know what to do. Here's a short list of typical teenage problems with their solutions.

Have terrible parents?
Talk to them. Discuss with them. Tell them why you are unhappy.
If they still refuse to listen or change, you can either:
1. Listen to them cause you are living under their house/they are paying for you
2. Move out. Get a part time job and support yourself.

Yes, it's difficult but it has been done and it is definitely possible.

Heartbroken 
Many times people say that they are heartbroken. That is okay. There is no problem with being heartbroken but if you have not even told him/her that you like her and you are heartbroken, I'm going to slap you.
At least do something before giving up. Try your bloody best.
However, you need to understand that even if you try your bloody best, you may not succeed. When that happens, then you need to learn how to give up and move on.

Don't know what you want to do in life
Well, you may not know this but most people in the world have no idea what they want to do too. However, that shouldn't stop you from doing things in general. The best way to find out what you want to do in life is to do as many things as possible. You may be surprised at things that you like and don't like. You may even want to do Math for a living.
Another thing is that many people are afraid to commit to something once they found it. They are afraid that they may change their mind.
A message to these people: IT IS OKAY TO CHANGE YOUR MIND


Doing, learning, changing, growing. There are all part of life so don't be afraid.

Final Note: Don't hate your life. It's the only one you got.